A Year-by-Year Guide to Traditional Wedding Anniversary Gifts (2023)

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Whether you're celebrating one year of marital bliss or your first decade of matrimony, a thoughtful anniversary gift that shows how much you care is an absolute must. If you've done your research, you know that some couples choose to exchange presents based on their anniversary year. You might also know that there are two types of lists—traditional and modern. If you're sticking with the classics, your first married year calls for paper, the second for cotton, the third for leather, and so on. You know the drill!

Finding the perfect present that suits your spouse can be challenging enough and choosing one that also aligns with the traditional anniversary year gift can feel near impossible. That's where we come in. We've outlined the classic present categoriesfor the first 20 years of marriage and even added in a few gift ideas (for him and her) for each, too. With this handy guide, you won't just wonder which type of present you're supposed to exchange on year 13—you'll be ready with plenty of ideasto please your favorite person.

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Year 1: Paper

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In the grand scheme of this list, complete with more expensive themes like platinum and crystal, paper represents modest beginnings and the growth of a marriage. Start small and gift a calligraphed version of your wedding vows, or take it one step further and frame them and hang them above your bed as a surprise. If you and your spouse are trying to gift experiences over things, exchange concert or airlinetickets—they're your paper gift loophole!

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Year 2: Cotton


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Cotton Gifts for Your 2nd Wedding Anniversary

An embroidered cotton pajama set, a fresh set of his favorite sheets, a monogrammed throw blanket—your second, fabric-themed anniversary gift is all about giving comfort. A good rule of thumb? If it's cotton, makes you want to snuggle, and is conducive to cuddling, it passes the test.

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Year 3: Leather

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Leather symbolizes durability and longevity (it gets better with age!), an apt description of you and your love's marriage. A pair of rich, cognac-colored leather dress shoes will make an impression on him, as will a buttery weekender bag. For her, opt for that designer handbag she's had her eyes on forever, or a custom etched leather bracelet, complete with both your initials.

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Year 4: Linen

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Linen Gifts for Your 4th Wedding Anniversary

On your fourth anniversary, revamp your tablescape with a new runner and napkin set, especially if your linens are looking a little worn for the weardue to all the family holidays you've been hosting. When it comes to linens, adding on a monogram is a surefire way to make the gift that more meaningful.

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Year 5: Wood

Wood may seem like an unlikely gift medium, but the material actually has a lot to offer, especially if you're working on crafting a wine and spirit cellar. Hire a professional to design a custom wine box or whiskey barrel, where you can store your most prized bottles (including your wedding wine!). For something a little more practical, opt for a butcher's block. This is an especially smart if you two spend most of your time together in the kitchen, whipping up one mid-week masterpiece after the next.

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Year 6: Iron


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Like your marriage, iron is incredibly strong, which makes it a more-than-appropriate gift choice for your sixth wedding anniversary. Couples traditionally exchange designed-to-last kitchenware, like cast-iron skillets or Dutch ovens, but there's a way to make the sturdy, masculine medium a little bit more personal. Since this is (typically!) around the time when couples decide on a forever-home, a new set of iron house numbers signifies that you've officially established permanent residency together.

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Year 7: Wool

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Wool Gifts for Your 7th Wedding Anniversary

Wool has long been a symbol of enduring marriage. In ancient times, Roman brides wore wool wedding dresses, since the fabric was considered lucky and repellant of evil spirits. Today, couples mark the comfort, security, and warmth of their relationships by exchanging wool on their seventh wedding anniversary. Gift each other cashmere scarves so you'll stay warm and cozy even when you're not together. Also options? Slipping new pillow covers onto the cushions on your sectional, sourcing the finest wool for the warmest winter blanket possible, or knitting a soft pair of socks (or a sweater, if you're really good!).

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Year 8: Pottery

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Pottery Gifts for Your 8th Wedding Anniversary

Ceramic represents earthiness and simplicity, so keep it low-key while celebrating year eight. Take a pottery wheel class together, where you'll learn to craft your own ceramic vases, bowls, and plates—you just might also discover a new favorite hobby. If you want to exchange physical gifts, try his and hers mugs, a bespoke vase, a pretty catch-all, or natural dinnerware.

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Year 9: Willow

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Willow Gifts for Your 9th Wedding Anniversary

Keep the same themes in mind for your ninth wedding anniversary. Perfect for budding gardeners, planting a willow tree outside of your home insures future shade and comfort in the next decade (or two!). A willow whicker picnic basket is the perfect companion gift—you'll be able to dine under the shade of your new tree spring after spring.

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Year 10: Aluminum

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You've done it—one whole decade together. Celebrate your relationship's fortitude with a material that's (almost!) as solid: aluminum. Mark the landmark occasion with a luxe gift, like a set of new kitchen knivesor a pair of weather-resistant bikes, perfect for racing down your favorite trails. Planning on going even bigger? Aluminum is commonly found in cars, which means purchasing that joy-ride for your couples trip up the coast is totally justifiable.

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Year 11: Steel


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Steel Gifts for Your 11th Wedding Anniversary

One more year together means your marriage is that much stronger, which is why steel follows aluminum (steel is a tougher medium than aluminum!) in the traditional gift chain. Come your 11th anniversary, look to your wrists for inspiration. A sleek stainless steel watch works for both him or her. Better yet, buy each other complementary time pieces you'll wear every day. Alternatively, replace dated household appliances—like dishwashers, refrigerators, or your washer-and-dryer combo—with steel options for a sleek, modern home refresh.

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Year 12: Silk

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Silk Gifts for Your 12th Wedding Anniversary

As the years go by, you'll notice that the traditional gifts get more and more luxe. Silk, a pricey fabric, definitely follows suit. Mediate the splurge by choosing a gift that you'll use frequently, like a pair of pretty statement pumps or a silk pillowcase for her, or a go-to work tie for him.

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Year 13: Lace


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Lace Gifts for Your 13th Wedding Anniversary

Make your 13th year of marriage that much more special with this dainty fabric—or with objects inspired by the textile. Lace-inspired jewelry, like a Filigree lace cuff or drop earrings make an unconventional but appropriate choice for your wife. Since lace is so often associated with the feminine, finding the right gift for your guy might be trickier. Get creative and consider having a piece of your lace wedding dress sewed inside his favorite work blazer. This way, he'll have a piece of your wedding day with him every time he wears it.

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Year 14: Ivory

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Ivory Gifts for Your 14th Wedding Anniversary

Skip the real thing and opt for an ivory-colored gift instead. A sprawling all-white bouquet withher favorite blooms will surely earn you brownie points.For him, opt for a luxurious white-plated shaving set, complete with a razor and lather brush, to help him feel like he's getting a formal shave from the comfort of his own home.

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Year 15: Crystal

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Crystal Gifts for Your 15th Wedding Anniversary

Sparkly, elevated, and decidedly expensive, crystal is definitely the way to go when celebrating the big 1-5. If you've become wine connoisseurs over the years, a set of crystal goblets is our go-to pick. A vintage vase, candy dish, or decorative object are also all tried-and-true choices.

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Year 16: Hollowware

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This category refers to any type of hollow vessel, like a pitcher, vase, or planter. Since this recommendation is so broad, hone in on your spouse's interests. For example, if your husband or wife is a beer-lover, a new growler will make their visits to a favorite brewery even better.

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Year 17: Furniture

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In the 17 years since you first registered for or bought furniture, trends and your personal style have likely changed. Take advantage of this classic gift type and redesign your living room (or bedroom, or bathroom!) together. If family wants to know what they can get you this year, ask for interior design services—an expert will help both your visions come to life cohesively, no matter how different they are.

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Year 18: Porcelain

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Porcelain Gifts for Your 18th Wedding Anniversary

You've mastered the art of hostessing, which means your dinnerware likely has a few chips here and there. Upgrade your set with something you love just as much. If you went classic years ago, try something bolder this time around. A chinoiserie set, like this one, feels traditional, but brings a welcome splash of color to your tabletop.

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Year 19: Bronze

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Bronze Gifts for Your 19th Wedding Anniversary

Since bronze is created by combining copper and tin, it acts as a symbol of the marriage pact—two people pledging to live (and potentially raise a family!) as one. As you approach two decades of marriage, a metaphor like this one feels more poignant. Reaffirm your bond with a bronze gift that represents it. Reframe a favorite wedding photo in bronze, pick out a vintage metallic vase together, or peruse the work of a local artist for a garden sculpture you both love.

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Year 20: Platinum

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Platinum Gifts for Your 20th Wedding Anniversary

You've loved and remained committed to each other for twenty years, which means it's definitely time to celebrate. You'll likely do a lot of reflecting on this anniversary, which makes finding a gift that represents your beginnings a good place to start. Plan a vow renewal, where you'll exchange an upgraded engagement ring or wedding rings, as a couple. Placing that new-and-improved band on your hand will simultaneously bring the memories of your engagement period and wedding day rushing back and get you excited for the next 20 years to come.

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What is the item for each anniversary? ›

Celebration and gifts

These gifts vary in different countries, but some anniversary years now have well-established connections common to most nations: 5th Wood, 10th Tin, 15th Crystal, 20th China, 25th Silver, 30th Pearl, 35th Jade, 40th Ruby, 45th Sapphire, 50th Gold, 60th Diamond, and 70th Platinum.

What are the traditional modern anniversary gifts by year? ›

  • 1st Anniversary: Paper. Paper is the traditional gift for celebrating your first year of marriage. ...
  • 2nd Anniversary: Fiber. ...
  • 4th Anniversary: Flowers. ...
  • 6th Anniversary: Candy. ...
  • 7th Anniversary: Copper or Wool. ...
  • 8th Anniversary: Bronze or Pottery. ...
  • 10th Anniversary: Aluminum. ...
  • 11th Anniversary: Steel.
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Are there traditional anniversary gifts? ›

Each wedding anniversary has traditional and modern gifts, as well as traditional flowers, colors, and gemstones.

What should you not give as a wedding gift? ›

Unless the couple has specifically told you otherwise, you'll want to avoid these 18 bad wedding gifts.
  • Off-registry linens. Credit: Stone & Beam. ...
  • Regifted items. ...
  • A half-gift… ...
  • Or an item for half the couple. ...
  • Artwork and other home decor. ...
  • Any kind of baby-related items. ...
  • Gag gifts. ...
  • Self-help or relationship books.
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Is $300 a good wedding gift? ›

Upon consulting the experts, a wedding gift should range from $75 to $750—but most agree that $300+ is the sweet spot.

What are the most important anniversaries? ›

The first few years of your marriage up to 10 years are all considered major anniversary landmarks. After that, the big celebrations usually come every 5 and 10 years. The anniversary where the traditional gift starts becoming more precious is your 25th, when silver is the traditional material.

What are the most important wedding anniversaries? ›

How to Celebrate Those Big Anniversary Milestones
  • 5 Year Anniversary – Sapphire. After five years, treat your lady like a queen with a sapphire! ...
  • 10 Year Anniversary – Diamonds. Diamonds. ...
  • 25 Year Anniversary- Silver Jubilee. ...
  • 30 Year Anniversary – Pearl. ...
  • 40 Year Anniversary- Ruby. ...
  • 50 Year Anniversary- Gold Jubilee.
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How do I choose an anniversary gift? ›

Celebrate the Date

Use the number of years you've been together as the basis for the gift. For example, if you have been together for two years, chose a gift which has 'two items' to it – like, tickets for a show or the cinema. For three years, perhaps try drinks, dinner and dancing.

What are the traditional presents? ›

Complete List of Anniversary Gifts by Year
  • Anniversary Gift Ideas by Year. Traditional Gift. Modern Gift. Flower. ...
  • 1st Year. Paper. Clock. ...
  • 2nd Year. Cotton. China. ...
  • 3rd Year. Leather. Crystal / Glass. ...
  • 4th Year. Fruit / Flowers (US) Linen / Silk (UK) ...
  • 5th Year. Wood. Silverware. ...
  • 6th Year. Iron (US) Sugar (UK) ...
  • 7th Year. Copper (US) Wool (UK)
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What is the 6 year anniversary gift traditional and modern? ›

These are the traditional gifts associated with the sixth anniversary: Traditional Gift: Candy (for sweetness) or iron (for strength) Contemporary/Modern Gift: Wood, which signifies a long-lasting and solid marriage. Gemstone: Amethyst or turquoise.

What are some gift giving traditions? ›

Here are some traditions to be aware of on your travels.
  • Insist a little. China, Singapore, Taiwan, South Korea, and Japan.
  • Hand it over with care. India, Africa, the Middle East, and East Asia.
  • Give gifts as a thank-you. ...
  • Leave sharp objects at home. ...
  • Avoid taboo objects. ...
  • Pick a lucky number. ...
  • Wrap it up. ...
  • No gifts, please.
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How much should you spend on an anniversary gift? ›

For your own wedding anniversary, we recommend a gift budget of around $100. For giving to others on their anniversaries, such as your parents milestone anniversaries, we recommend a gift of $25-$50.

Where do the traditional wedding anniversary gifts come from? ›

The most likely guess is that the gift list made its debut during the Victorian era in the United Kingdom during the 1800s, and then jumped across the pond to the United States in the early 20th century [source: Martha Stewart].

Are anniversary gifts necessary? ›

While the short answer is that no, gifts aren't strictly necessary, there's more to it. Making your significant other feel special is never a bad idea. Here are our thoughts on when you should and shouldn't give anniversary gifts, and how to pick out the right one.

What is a waste of money for a wedding? ›

In general, couples may want to reconsider spending money on anything overly trendy, especially if it has no sentimental value. Extravagant touches like releasing live doves, setting off fireworks, or hiring professional dancers can actually distract from the true focus of the wedding: the couple.

What is an appropriate wedding gift amount 2022? ›

On average, guests in 2022 are spending around $150 per person on a wedding gift. When considering an appropriate amount to spend on the wedding gift, the main factors are your relationship with the couple, how fancy is the reception, and how many pre-wedding activities are you invited to.

What is considered a generous wedding gift? ›

Again, think of your relationship with the couple. For closer friends and family, you may want to consider going to $200, or higher if you can afford it. For others, $100 to $150 is more than okay as a wedding gift amount.

Is $500 too much for a wedding gift? ›

A typical cash wedding gift could range from $50 to $500, depending on the same factors listed above. Even then, aiming for the $100 mark is generally sufficient and will be comparable to the average cost of a physical wedding gift.

How much do you give for a wedding gift of money for a couple of 2022 in Canada? ›

Traditionally, etiquette states that spending between $100 and $200 is appropriate for a wedding gift, but there are a few other factors to consider.

Do most parents pay for weddings? ›

According to the WeddingWire Newlywed Report, parents pay for 52% of wedding expenses, while the couple pays for 47% (the remaining 1% is paid for by other loved ones)—so parents are still paying for a majority of the wedding, though couples are chipping in fairly significantly.

What is the longest marriage ever? ›

The longest marriage ever was enjoyed by Herbert Fisher (USA, b. 1905) and Zelmyra Fisher (USA, b. 1907). The couple had been married for 86 years 290 days as of 27 February 2011, when Mr Fisher passed away.

How soon do couples move in together? ›

How long do most couples date before living together? “Same gender couples, on average, move in together within 6 months. For all other couples, it seems to be on average about 2 years,” says Dr.

When to know when to say I love you? ›

Signs it's the right time to say "I love you":

You know your partner extremely well. You recognize your partner's flaws—but you still feel like you love them. You've had significant or meaningful experiences together. Statements like "I like you a lot" don't feel like they're enough anymore.

What are hardest years of marriage? ›

After all, almost 50% of first marriages, 60% of second marriages, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce. While there are countless divorce studies with conflicting statistics, the data points to two periods during a marriage when divorces are most common: years 1 – 2 and years 5 – 8.

What is the most romantic month to get married? ›

According to our 2021 Real Weddings Study, 80% of all weddings took place between May to October. To be specific, the most popular wedding months are June (13%), August (13%) and October (22%). For many couples, things like warm weather, an outdoor venue or fall foliage are important.

What are the three gifts of marriage? ›

Three Gifts of Marriage: Companionship, Passion and Purpose. When marriage is done well, couples not only experience the wonderful emotional and physical intimacy of being “on the same page” but also frequently sense a deeper, more profound, spiritual connection.

What hand and finger do you wear an anniversary ring? ›

In fact, an anniversary ring can be worn on either hand and on any finger. It's entirely up to your personal preference! If you don't want to overwhelm the ring finger on your left hand by adding another ring, you can wear the new piece of jewelry on your right ring finger.

Is a gift card a good anniversary gift? ›

If your partner, mom or sister has a big occasion coming up, get them a gift card so they can celebrate it the way they want. This range of gift cards is a great way to mark a birthday, anniversary or promotion at work - because they can be used for so many different purchases.

Do you give cash for a wedding anniversary? ›

It's all about your personal budget. And cash is a completely acceptable gift, says Lizzie Post, etiquette expert and co-host of Emily Post's “Awesome Etiquette” podcast. Some couples even prefer it.

What is the 3 gift rule? ›

One popular tactic is to have your kids narrow their gift lists to just three categories: something they want (say, a new video game), something they need (like a puffer coat) and something to read (the Ramona series has been calling their name).

What is the 4 gift rule? ›

A trend which has gained traction over the past few years on social media is the "four gift rule". Parents pledge to give their offspring just four presents: Something they want, something they need, something to wear and something to read.

What are the 5 gifts? ›

Ephesians 4:11 lists 5 gifts which are Apostle, Prophet, Evangelist, Pastor and Teacher. These 5 are unique – they are governing ministry gifts given to people who are called to ministry leadership within the global and local church.

What is the 8 year anniversary gift traditional and modern? ›

The eighth anniversary's traditional gifts are bronze and pottery, while lace and linen are its modern gifts. But if these materials aren't your cup of tea, there are many other symbols associated with the eight-year wedding anniversary. Or you can make the occasion your own with any of our alternative gift ideas.

What is the tradition for 7 year anniversary? ›

The traditional gifts for a seventh anniversary are copper and wool. Copper is durable and represents love and protection. A practical gift like a copper growler can be greatly appreciated. In contrast, wool is symbolic of warmth and comfort.

What is the traditional gift for 8 years of marriage? ›

Since one of the eighth-anniversary traditional gifts is pottery, create something special for your home together. Go to a pottery class, sit at the potter's wheel together, and see what you can design. Try a jewelry-design class and create bronze pieces you both can wear to commemorate your anniversary.

What is the 5 gift rule? ›

In the 5 Gift Rule, the first four gifts are the same - something they want, something they need, something to wear and something to read. But the 5th? The 5th is the real winner. It's something they need or want but don't really know it.

What are the 6 gifts from God? ›

They are: wisdom, understanding, counsel, fortitude, knowledge, piety, and fear of the Lord.

Is a $25 gift card too cheap? ›

For co-workers, casual friends and your children's teachers, stay in the $10 to $20 range. Gift cards for close friends and family members can range from $25 to $100. When you're selecting a gift card for a spouse, parent or someone else who's very special, choose a card worth $75 or more.

Is $250 a good wedding gift from a couple? ›

$100 to $250 is a safe range for a cash gift at a wedding

“Most couples request cash gifts on their wedding day to help them begin their new life chapter. How much you give at a destination or local wedding depends on your relationship with them and your budget,” he says.

How much can a couple gift per year? ›

You just cannot gift any one recipient more than $16,000 within one year. If you're married, you and your spouse can each gift up to $16,000 to any one recipient. If you gift more than the exclusion to a recipient, you will need to file tax forms to disclose those gifts to the IRS.

Who invented traditional anniversary gifts? ›

Medieval times

Some speculate it dates back to the Middle Ages in Germanic Europe, where silver or gold garlands were given by the husband to the wife to symbolize the 25th or 50th years of marriage. Others say it was fueled by the Victorian era, when oral histories and traditions were more often cataloged.

What is the difference between wedding anniversary and marriage anniversary? ›

Wedding Anniversary and Marriage Anniversary both refer to the yearly celebration of a couple's anniversary. Technically, they are the same, but people tend to use them differently in different ways. Wedding Anniversary is more common in western countries, while marriage anniversary is mainly used by Asians and Arabs.

Do wives buy husband anniversary gifts? ›

Absolutely! In fact, that might be an even better fit for your husband–bonus points if it's something you can do together to celebrate your anniversary. Especially if you both have busy schedules and don't often get much time alone, an experiential gift for just the two of you is an excellent choice.

Is it rude not to give a wedding gift? ›

Is giving a wedding gift even mandatory? Yes and no. Whether it's a 30th birthday or a wedding, if you're invited to a celebratory party, it's customary for a guest to bring a gift. But if you don't bring one, you aren't breaking any laws.

Does gift giving still matter? ›

It is a good way of strengthening relationships. If you are in a friendship or a relationship, you should always show the other person how much you care for him or her. You don't need to wait for as special occasion to give a gift, give one to show how much you love someone anytime.

What are the gifts for the first 10 years of marriage? ›

At some point during your first decade of marriage, you or your spouse might have eyed an anniversary band. And the 10th wedding anniversary is the perfect time to add one to your set, complete with the traditional stone for 10 years of marriage: diamonds.

What is given for 10 years of marriage? ›

Traditionally, tin or aluminum is meant to commemorate the 10th wedding anniversary. Known for their resilience and inability to rust, they symbolize the durability of your marriage. But if you want to give—or receive—a bit more glamorous of a gift, you might prefer the more modern 10th-anniversary theme: diamonds.

How are wedding gifts divided in a divorce? ›

In California family law, as a general presumption, all property acquired during marriage is considered community property. Upon divorce, all community property accumulated by the parties will typically be divided equally.

What are the hardest years of marriage? ›

After all, almost 50% of first marriages, 60% of second marriages, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce. While there are countless divorce studies with conflicting statistics, the data points to two periods during a marriage when divorces are most common: years 1 – 2 and years 5 – 8.

What are the 5 most important things in a marriage? ›

Whether you've been in a relationship before or this is your first, here are a few things that are essential for a healthy relationship.
  • 1: Open communication. ...
  • 2: Listening and feeling heard. ...
  • 3: Working through disagreements. ...
  • 4: Mutual intimacy. ...
  • 5: Trust.

What is the rule of thumb for wedding gifts? ›

An easy rule of thumb is to stay within the average range of $75 to $200, but you can adjust the exact amount based on your personal finances, as well as your relationship with the couple.

What is the 10 year itch in marriage? ›

Year 10. Apparently, there is also a “Ten Year Itch!” According to a study at Brigham and Women's University, where over 2000 women were surveyed, the highest level of marital dissatisfaction occurs around the 10th year of marriage.

How do you count your wedding anniversary? ›

Wedding anniversary names common to most nations include: Wooden (5th), Tin (10th), Crystal (15th), China (20th), Silver (25th), Pearl (30th), Ruby (40th), Golden (50th), and Diamond (60th).

What years of marriage are the happiest? ›

There's good news for couples reaching the seven-year-itch, as it's not all downhill from here, according to a new study on relationships. Researchers from the Pennsylvania State and Brigham Young Universities have found that the happiest point of a marriage is actually when you reach 20 years together.

Who owns the wedding ring after divorce? ›

' In a divorce, [the wedding ring is] usually seen as separate property in the divorce since it was given as a gift." There are exceptions to every rule, but generally speaking, each partner gets to keep their respective rings.

What do the husbands parents pay for in a wedding? ›

The parents of the groom are expected to pay for the marriage license and officiant fee, the rehearsal dinner (including the venue, food, drink, decorations, entertainment—and yes—the invitations, too), and accommodations/transportation pertaining to the groom's family and groomsmen.

Who keeps the wedding ring? ›

The ring is kept by the recipient, even if the marriage never occurs and no matter who broke the engagement. Once the marriage occurs, most states view the gifting of the ring as complete. In the event of a divorce, the recipient of the ring is entitled to keep the gift.


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